I walked into my "bout cham" (small effeciency) stunned. I just came from a meetup with the local atheist group and had a paradigm shift. I felt a strange sense of relief and a secret thrill. I had been properly defined. I sat down and updated my Facebook profile promoting the fact that I was at a Florida Atheist Secular Humanist meeting. I knew that posting this would be tantamount to social suicide. Valerie was the only person who commented positively on my post. My life had just changed. Oh my God, I accepted the fact that I was an atheist.